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I'm a disabled Army vet, and men seem very intimidated by me - I'm intelligent and very fit. Do I have to be a wilting flower to date?

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No, you don't have to be a wilting flower to date - you just have to be yourself. It's also important to consider if you seem accessible and open or not.
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Anonymous answered
I myself have found that in dating a lot of men want women without much personality or sense of self. This is unfortunate, but just means these are not the men who are worth your time! I've also found that men care way too much about how good a woman's body is, so being fit should be a great asset for you!
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